This is my no list when traveling In other words what I will tell people no stop or knock it off 1 Complaining about w e a t h e r -this was added after my husband yelled about the heat in Vietnam so bad he made me cry so I said if we still wanted to travel together he couldn t complain about the weather It is the one thing you can t control 2 Skipping historical s i t e s -I m a history nerd I am not skipping any historical site no matter how boring you might thing it will be 3 avoiding asking for h e l p - it is ok to ask for help If you don t ever want to ask or are to embrassed to let me ask stay home 4 party drinking every n i g h t -I been