I have been there. The place where you feel you aren’t heard or loved for who you are and you just want to find the easiest way out. I’ve tried many times to check out. Therapy with the RIGHT PSYCHIATRIST has taught me that I DO have VALUE even if it SEEMS like a lot of people can’t t see it. We ALL have our purpose and calling - some of us just don’t experience it till later in life or may only PROFOUNDLY touch 1 -2 people who may go on to do INCREDIBLE THINGS! The point is our reach may be less dramatic than they show in TV or movies but every one of us is an inspiration. NEVER STOP FIGHTING!! That’s what EVIL wants from you! Pass this on to someone who may be at the crossroads.
I’d like to think I’m a safe space, too. Not perfect: the roof leaks a bit and when the wind blows particularly strong you can hear it whistling past, but I’m working on improvements. We all have our own work that needs doing and we all have our blind spots about ourselves. But as long as you’re willing to listen, learn, and evolve, I’d love to have you stay in my wonderful community of supporters and builders 🥰
If this group wasn’t meant for you, stay out. Meaning: if you have such strong opinions to the contrary (having a safe space for the LGBTQIA+ community) then it wasn’t meant for you. Y’all act like a bunch of children who get kicked out of the clubhouse for being dicks to everyone and then wonder why and have a conniption fit when we try to explain why. YOU aren’t LISTENING or HEARING. You’re REACTING. Give your lizard brain a break and try using your logical mind. God gave you a brain to use: don’t disappoint Him by listening to what manipulative PEOPLE and CORPORATIONS say you should believe. Hell: at some point you can’t even trust your own experience because those are closely tied to emotions! It’s wonderful, brave, and smart to listen to and learn from thoughtful and kind people every so often.