the greatest blessing any family can experience is deaths going Grandparents > Parents > child. When you mix up that cycle, tragedy unfolds in the most painful ways. As someone who’s been so strongly affected by suicide (both internally and externally) i cannot stay silent. My life matters. Chandler’s life matters. We cannot stay quiet about this, and we have to speak. no matter how much our voice shakes, or how hard it is to frame your words.